One of us just can't anymore
Sometimes a couple's sexual life shifts through one partner's physical changes or a medical condition that restricts or inhibits sexual performance.
We recommend that couples and individuals in these circumstances take the time to explore or invent new forms of intimate expression that will work in these circumstances.
Dig deeper by exploring the related conditions listed at right, or choose another statement that sounds like you.
First published 01/13/2010 Last updated 06/29/2010
Here are some conditions that can get in your way
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Learn how your body's changes affect your sexuality.
Understanding what's changing can help you keep sex enjoyable.
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Enhance comfort by caring for your vaginal and vulvar tissues.
Compensating for lower hormone levels means taking care of yourself.
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Increase sensation in genital tissues.
Taking more time, energy, and attention can re-awaken our sensations.
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Maintain tone in the pelvic floor muscles.
Exercising these muscles encourages circulation and strengthens orgasms.
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Build intimate relationships.
Having emotional bonds is essential for good sex after 40.


